Growing Apart
✅ 60 cards for noticing, testing, and deciding when you’re growing apart
✅ Work your own half first, then choose what to say and when
✅ Short exercises, honest questions, and the exact words to say out loud
What is the Growing Apart Card Deck?
60 cards for a relationship gone quiet, in 6 groups, from naming the distance to testing it to deciding what’s next.
Each card gives you one thing to try and the words to say, not a verdict on them.
Is this a game?
No, the Growing Apart deck is not a game! You can pick it up as easily as one, but every card is a real step for a real relationship, not a rule, a score, or a challenge.
How does the card deck help me?
It gives you one specific move for the moment you’re stuck in the quiet, instead of relationship advice you have to translate into your own life. Draw a card, read it in ten seconds, start.
How can I use it
- Week by week, work one group at a time, in order, for six weeks.
- When one thing is happening, pull the card that names it and stay there a week.
- With your partner, don’t respond to anything until both cards are read out loud.
Works on your own, or with your partner across the table.
Growing Apart
What's inside the Deck
Who is it for?
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Not Just a Busy Year 😶
You ask what’s wrong. They say nothing. You let the word close the door again and file it under a busy year. This deck skips the guessing and hands you one small move to make this week.
For When Nothing Is Wrong 🤍
Six groups named after what actually derails you: the quiet, your own withdrawal, answers you explain away.
If a strategy needed a grand gesture or a three-hour summit, it didn’t make the deck.
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Fourth deck I’ve bought. They’ve become my go-to birthday gift for friends.
Honest, plain language. Exactly what I hoped for.
Wish the backs had a bit more breathing room. A few are very text-heavy. The writing is worth it, though.
I use several Insight Decks with clients. They make hard topics easier to open without feeling clinical.
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Fast shipping, beautiful cards, will order again.
I read Growing Apart alone, slowly, over six weeks like it suggests. It helped me stop guessing.
My shelf now has nine Insight Decks. Each one is as useful as the first.
Bought Habit Hacks for my partner and Growing Apart for me. Different needs, same clear format.
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Who is this product for?
The deck is perfect for:
- Busy Parents whose conversations have shrunk to schedules, school runs, and who pays what.
- Long-Term Partners wondering whether a quiet decade means peace or absence.
- People Weighing a Big Decision who want to stay or leave on purpose, not by drift.
- Self-Development Readers who want honest, practical tools for the relationships they already have.
What does the card deck include?
The deck includes 60 cards across 6 groups: The Quiet, What You Stopped Saying, Say It Without The Charge, The Test, Read The Answer, and What You Do Now. Each strategy card includes:
- A short TRY THIS exercise you can do the same week
- THE INSIGHT, a short line on why the pattern works that way
- ASK YOURSELF questions that apply it to your own relationship
- SAY IT LIKE THIS, the exact sentence to use out loud
What formats are available?
- Digital version: Instantly accessible and downloadable.
- Digital + Physical version: Includes the digital version and a beautifully designed physical card deck shipped to your address.
What is the return policy?
Due to the digital nature of the product, refunds are not available for the digital version. For the physical version, if your product arrives damaged, please contact us within 14 days for a replacement.